Formal attire. All colors are acceptable, patterns are encouraged.

We are not allowing additional plus-ones to our wedding, as we'd like to keep the guests list just to those who know us well. The name of every guest invited to attend is listed on your invitation. This applies to children as well.

There will be a open bar for guests to enjoy throughout cocktail hour and the reception.

We recommend arriving at the ceremony venue at least 30 minutes ahead of the ceremony start time. Ceremony start time is 4:30 pm

Our reception will end at 10:00pm, after which there will be a rave style after-party inside the lodge at the venue featuring our favorite EDM songs.

A 60-minute cocktail hour will take place at the venue between the ceremony and reception where you can enjoy cocktails, mocktails, lawn games and small bites including an oyster bar.

All of our guests are invited to join us for a welcome cocktail pizza party on the evening before our wedding starting Friday at 7 pm at the wedding venue. We invite our guests to also join us for a small brunch on the day after our wedding starting at 8:30 am in the Lodge at the venue.

We kindly ask that you refrain from taking any photos or videos during our wedding ceremony. We want our guests to truly be in the moment with us during this special part of the weekend. Outside of the ceremony, photos and videos are welcomed.

Albany International Airport is the closest to Lanesborough, MA.

If you would like to honor us with a gift, you can have it delivered to our home at 9 Shawmut St Apt 2 Worcester MA 01609. A wedding card box will be at our reception. Our registry can be found here:

We will only be providing guest transportation on the day of the wedding from the hotel to the venue. The last transportation will be at 10pm, so if you plan on staying for the after party ride share transport would be required.

We have reserved a room block at Holiday Inn and Suites One West Street, Pittsfield, MA 01201. Please book your stay as soon as possible to guarantee a room in our block. Use the group code: HRW or mention the Rubenfield, Harris wedding while booking to receive our reduced rate.

The wedding will take place outside, with the reception being held under a tent. To check out more about the venue, visit https://www.berkshirelakehouse.com/